28th Dec 09

Winter Solstice

The Winter Solstice Festival or The Extreme of Winter is one of the most important festival celebrated by the Chinese and other east Asians during the dongzhi solar term on or around December 21 when sunshine is weakest and daylight is shortest. The origins of this festival can be traced back to the yin and yang philosophy of balance and harmony in the cosmos. After this celebration, there will be days with longer day light hours and therefore an increase in positive energy flowing in. Traditionally, the Dongzhi festival is also a time for family to get together. One activity that occurs during these get togethers is the making and eating of Tangyuan or balls of glutinous rice, which symbolize reunion.

Message from a friend

" 爱的感觉总是在一开始时甜蜜...
总觉得多了一个人陪...
多了一个人帮你分担你的烦恼...
你终于不再孤单...
因为至少有一个人会想着你... 恋着你~
只要能在一起就是好的...
但是...
随着认识的加深...
你开始发现了对方的缺点...
于是问题一个接一个出现...
你开始觉得烦, 累...甚至想要逃避~

其实爱情就像磨石子一样...
有人总想捡到一个适合自己的石子...
但你有如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?
或许刚捡到的时候...你不是很满意...
但是请记住人是有弹性的...
很多事情是可以改变只要有心,有勇气~
与其到处去捡未知的石头...还不如将自己已拥有的石头磨亮磨光...
你明了吗?
别随地的将未知石头捡起来...
珍惜你所拥有的...这就是恋爱的开始...
不要随便牵手~更不要随便放手... "

A message from my friend

"当一个人爱上另一个人, 他会甘心为她做任何事情, 从不会计较牺牲和付出多少, 即使赔上时间青春学业甚至性命也不相干, 只要能跟他心爱的人在一起, 一切的牺牲也都值得.

这种热切渴望我很明白, 可是人们总经常忘记在爱情的国都里, 从来都没有一分耕耘一分收获这回事. 一个人要是爱你, 那么即使你什么也不做, 他也一样爱你: 要是他不爱你, 即使你做尽一切, 将一切送上, 他也不见得爱你多一点. 也许他会感动, 但谁又能让他一生不停感动下去?

人总不可能不断付出,准有一天会感到很累, 到时候他不再感动, 我们又能如何? 只为感动而生的爱情最不可靠, 因为我们根本无法分得清那是感情还是爱情, 也永远无法知道他爱的到底是自己, 还是自己为她付出的一切."

My First Aid Friends

Friends are like panadol

When you are suffered

They give you relief

Friends are like handyplast

When you are hurt

They recover your wound

Friends are like cool fever

When you are anxious

They bring you comfort

Friends are like drugs

You will get hooked up by them

Friends are like herbal remedy

Bitter yet effective

Wrong timing

I

Walked pass you as a passer by

Met you as a stranger

Know you as a friend

Fall for you as an admirer

Give up on you as a failure

Its you ~ Goodbye

The emptiness

The absenteeism

You are no more here

The empty seat

The absence of your shadow

The empty drawer

The absence of your books

The empty space

The absence of your voice

The empty leaving

The absence of your goodbye